It seems I am finally emerging from what felt like the winter of my life. A winter that was long and cold where I was stranded and was constantly looking for a warm cabin to call home. The thing is, I am that cabin. I spent so long searching for a home in another person I ended up becoming completely forgetful of my own personal strength.
Too many women get wrapped up in relationships, dedicate so much energy and love into the other person, (I was that person) that in the end they are left completely depleted and lost. We need to remember to never lose touch with our selves. Don’t sacrifice your values, your well-being for anybody. You are all you need my love. All of the warmth, and security lies within your self as soon as you realize this simple truth.